Expert Opinion: What Defines the Perfect Wedding?
In Ghana, and across much of the world, weddings are more than ceremonies. They are cultural spectacles, family reunions, and, increasingly, statements of personal identity. But what actually makes a wedding “perfect”? Is it the grandeur of the venue, the price tag of the dress, or the intimacy of the vows? Is it the number of guests, refreshments or venue?
Beyond the Glamour
Too often, weddings are judged by their aesthetics: the trending décor on Instagram, the elaborate kente designs, or the number of guests filling the hall. Yet experts argue that the true essence of a perfect wedding goes deeper.
“A perfect wedding is not defined by how much you spend, but by how well the event reflects the couple’s values,” says Aba Asante, a wedding planner in Accra.
Cultural Identity and Tradition
In Ghana, traditional engagements remain the heart of the marriage process. From the exchange of dowry to the symbolism of drinks presented to the bride’s family, these rituals remind couples that marriage is not just between two people, but between two families.
Table of Contents
The perfect wedding, therefore, is one that balances cultural identity with modern aspirations. A simple church blessing followed by a lively traditional dance can often feel more memorable than a costly imported theme.
Emotional Connection Over Perfection
Perfection, some argue, lies not in flawless execution but in genuine emotion. A groom’s nervous laughter, a bride’s teary smile, or a parent’s heartfelt prayer often leave a greater impression than choreographed dances or expensive fireworks.
“Weddings that stay with people are the ones that feel authentic; not the ones that look like movie sets,” notes Nana Yaa Kwarteng, a family counselor.
The Financial Reality
There’s also the question of cost. Many couples feel pressured to take loans to fund large weddings, a trend that often leads to post-wedding stress. Financial experts warn that the perfect wedding should never cripple the marriage financially.
“If the wedding costs more than the foundation of the marriage, then it’s already imperfect,” says Kwame Ofori, a financial advisor.
Defining Your Own Perfect
The modern consensus is clear: there is no universal formula for the perfect wedding. For some, it may be a grand event with 500 guests in a five-star hotel. For others, it is a quiet beachside ceremony with only family present. What matters most is alignment between the couple’s vision, their families’ expectations, and their financial reality.
Final Thought: The perfect wedding is not about grandeur or imitation, it’s about meaning. When the day captures love, respect, culture, and joy without leaving regret, then it has achieved perfection.
Read Also: Mr Eazi Marries Temi Otedola in Private Iceland Ceremony
